9.08.2005

Can Men Ever Grow Up?

My boyfriend's dad is a prick. And not just a prick because he is a typical man who just doesn't understand the needs of a woman, but instead a prick who cheats on his wife, pushes her around and then takes it out on his family.

I can't stand him! I have never even spoken a single word to him and I wish he would rot in hell. In fact every day of my life I get more and more pissed off that his family even some what allows him to still be a part of their lives. I don't understand how women now a day will allow men like this to control their lives. In fact I can't even believe that men like this still exsist in this world.

I am going to list all the bullshit he has handed down over Justin's lifetime and I would love your feedback to see if you even think that there is a chance in hell that you would allow his man to stick around.

- He has been cheating on his wife for a least three years and just recently moved out. About six months ago his wife caught him in the act while they were still just separated.

- He gives her little to no money to feed her family which includes a 10 and 9 year old.

- Leaves his wife while she is in the middle of cancer treatment and is now creating problems when she is about to go back into treatment.

- He is threating to kick out his oldest (Justin) because he just doesn't want to have to have pay for him and also to see what he can get away with.

- He lied to Justin and pulled him out of college to work for his business and then never made him a partner, got him an office space, or business cards for that matter. He also didn't pay him the amount he had promised him.

- He never attended a single sporting event or school function for Justin.

I had to blog about this today because I just can't imagine that there are still men in this world that can be this selfish and ridiculous. If you don't want to take care of your kids and manage your life keep your dick in your pants!

I feel so lucky at this moment that I had such an amazing father who loved my mom, brother and I more than life itself. I can only hope that there are more men like my father and not like Justin's!

2 comments:

jaynar said...

Yeah, I know I usually feel lucky to have the dad I do.

Anonymous said...

absolutely ridiculous - nobody should have to deal with that crap.